I believe... ...

*Man and woman, can be friends, just friends.*

I referred to the site which was introduced by a friend of mine, stating that Man and woman, can never be friends by a theory known as the ladder theory.
There is only friendship when 3 special conditions are present.
1)The girl is not appealing at all
2)The guy had a higher calibre girl in his mind
3)The guy is gay

However, personally, I do have a girl-friend who is sweet, intelligent, talented, and rich. I believe that there would not be many other girls that can beat her qualities. And lastly, I'm not a gay.

Definitely, I tried courting her before, in a simple fashion, I was turned down. However, we are still friends. We got together sometimes to catch up with each other's life.

It's nice to have a girl that I can speak to "semi- freely" ( no abusive language used, usually replaced by names of fruits or animals). Nevertheless, she definitely find me as a "good target" to be abused. Well, she thinks that taking on me, might boost her ego, lol (joking).

She had asked me what type of girl I would like to find:
"I would find her presence pleasant."I replied.

"What if she is demanding, and require changes from you?"
Though relationship do build upon compromisation, I stated, "I would like someone to accept what and who I am (same goes for my partner), I personally believe that there must be a room of freedom in a relationship, ( I don't mean freedom to go out and flirt!) just time to do each other's stuff (requires trust and understanding). And if the two of us really love each other, we would have learnt to accept each other's short comings, and not forcefully or relentlessly demanding for changes."

Yes, I'm a nobody as yet to become somebody. My words only express my thoughts via simple sentences ( I ain't a good writer). But I believe even though the world had become quite materialistic, true and simple love can still be found.

Poor NTU student,
Zhaoru.